Dating people short
On one occasion when things were going very poorly, instead of stressing out, I told my date I didn’t think we were a great match but that we could still have fun over dinner.
She seemed relieved and agreed to try to enjoy the dinner.
Once I relaxed, I felt much better about the impressions I was leaving.
There were several side-effects to this, aside from a busier schedule, that make me now believe this is the best way to approach online dating: 1.I still wasn’t the most confident guy (for example, I still wasn’t randomly asking girls out in public) but I was becoming very comfortable on dates, which gave the appearance of confidence. Less Stress With dating multiple women, there was always another first date on the horizon. I lost my hell-bent desire to make every date go perfectly.When the stress lessened, I stopped paying attention to myself and started paying attention to my date.This freedom allowed me to finally be honest with myself about what I was looking for.I stopped defending the poor qualities my dates had and started moving on.